January 7, 2026

Relationships & Reality – Article 1

The Moment Humanity Became Simultaneous

Series: Relationships & Reality  | Language: EN  | Purpose: Foundational Article / Timeline  | Style: precise, explanatory, non-moralizing

“Cohesion does not arise from rules, but from time experienced together.” — Konrad Lorenz

Context: This article is deliberately anchored in time (timeline) and describes the earliest developmental step in which synchronization became the supporting structure—long before language, writing, or institutions.

Guiding principle (YourLoveCode): Partner selection follows patterns of perceptual, emotional, and social similarity. These patterns lead statistically to genetic proximity, without genetics being a conscious selection criterion.

Introduction

The decisive developmental step of humanity did not begin with a tool, not with a mutation, and not with a single ingenious individual. It began in a moment when humans became simultaneous. Not in the sense of identity. Not in the sense of fusion. But in the sense of temporally coordinated perception, action, and emotion. This article describes the earliest point in human development at which synchronization became the supporting structure— long before language, writing, or institutions existed.

1. Initial state: Before simultaneity

Early hominins lived in groups, but for a long time these groups were reactive, not coordinated.
  • Individuals reacted to stimuli.
  • Actions were situational.
  • Emotions were largely individually bound.
Cooperation existed, but it was not stable over time. What was missing was not intelligence, but temporal coordination.

2. The transition: Synchronization instead of reaction

Between approximately 300,000 and 70,000 years ago, a qualitative shift occurred. Humans began to:
  • execute actions simultaneously,
  • perceive threats at the same time,
  • regulate states of tension collectively.

Examples (reconstructed from archaeology, anthropology, ethology):

  • Coordinated hunting with shared timing
  • Simultaneous freezing in the presence of danger
  • Collective attention toward the same stimulus
  • Recurring rituals without explicit instruction
The crucial point: This simultaneity did not need to be explained—it was felt.

3. Simultaneity as a new system quality

Actions, emotions, and attention were not merely shared, but temporally coupled.
This had far-reaching consequences:
  • Stress was buffered collectively.
  • Decisions no longer had to be renegotiated each time.
  • Learning accelerated through repetition of shared patterns.
Synchronization reduced system noise and increased survival probability, without requiring new biological structures.

4. Biological basis (without genetics as cause)

This developmental step was not triggered genetically, but was a systemic effect. The biological prerequisites already existed:
  • neural plasticity
  • social perception
  • capacity for emotional resonance
Only through regular temporal coupling did these potentials become effective. Genetic similarity, where later observable, arises statistically as a consequence of stable pair and group formation, not as a conscious selection criterion.

5. Why this moment was decisive

Through simultaneity, humans became:
  • more capable of learning across generations,
  • more stable in groups,
  • less dependent on individual strength,
  • connectable to later developments: language, symbolism, culture, social bonding, and partner formation.
Without this step, there would be no scalable society, no stable transmission of knowledge, and no long-term bonding between humans.

6. Connection to Article 3 (reference axis)

What is described here is the first expression of what Article 3 formulates systemically:
  • The human being is an open system.
  • Stability emerges through coherence, not isolation.
  • Synchronization is the foundation of relationship and learning.
Article 1 shows the origin of this dynamic. Article 3 explains its physical-biological structure.

7. Transition

With simultaneity, human development began—but it remained fragile. The next step was not strength and not technology, but scaling.
Why not all human groups completed this step equally—and why Homo sapiens became more stable in the long term than other human groups—is shown in Article 2.

Interim conclusion

Humans did not become dominant because they were stronger. They became so because they became simultaneous.

Core terms (5)

  • Synchronization
  • Simultaneity
  • Resonance
  • Coherence
  • Similarity

SEO Keywords (EN)

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Sources (literature & guiding references)

  • Boyd, R.; Richerson, P. J.: Cultural evolution and social learning.
  • Tomasello, M.: Shared intentionality and cooperative cognition.
  • Henrich, J. (2016): The Secret of Our Success.
  • Dunbar, R. I. M.: Social cohesion and group size.
  • Lorenz, K.: Ethological studies on bonding and cohesion.

Series coherence: The systemic reference axis of the series is “Matrix & Energy – Article 3” (human as an open, atmosphere-coupled system; coherence, synchronization, reward circuitry, epigenetics; EPR as a boundary marker; partner formation patterns including statistical genetic proximity).