Idea >> Original History of YourLoveCode

June 25, 2020

After my divorce, I asked myself the central question: How can I find the right partner for a new relationship?

During this time, I came across an issue of the magazine Psychologie Heute 1

with the headline: Partner choice: Happiness is achievable. This reading made me deeply reflect on love and how harmonious relationships come about. I began to analyze in depth what true love between people consists of and wanted to understand the universal language of love—not just for myself but also to share this knowledge with others.

Interestingly, shortly after purchasing the magazine, I met a man with whom I had an intense discussion about this topic. He confirmed many of my thoughts and introduced crucial insights:

Every person is not just an accumulation of matter but also possesses a unique energetic matrix. This matrix can be described through various parameters, which can be analyzed using algorithms:

The article, my personal situation, and the enriching conversation sparked my deep interest in the laws of love and partner selection. These insights formed the foundation for my further research—and ultimately for the development of YourLoveCode.

The development of YourLoveCode was a major challenge and spanned more than ten years. During this time, we conducted thousands of couple analyses, which led to the creation of unique algorithms based on the Rule of 5-Fold Similarity and Energy Synchronization (ES).

The culmination of our research was the definition of a completely new paradigm in answering the question: who harmonizes with whom? The results of this work were documented in the article “The Truth About Beauty Ideals and Partner Selection – The Rule of 5-Fold Similarity”.

This knowledge can help ensure that the broadly understood media world finally begins to apply terms related to a person’s beauty in a more truthful way. As a result, millions of people—especially young individuals—could be spared unnecessary psychological suffering.

Scientific studies confirm that partners often find each other based on similarity. A study by the University of Colorado Boulder found that married couples are genetically more similar than randomly selected individuals from the same population. The Josep Carreras Leukemia Research Institute in Barcelona also discovered that people who look alike often share similar DNA. Sigmund Freud similarly suggested that we do not choose our partners randomly but unconsciously seek out those who match existing patterns in our subconscious.

These findings contributed to the development of the 5x Similarity Rule of Energy Synchronization (ES). We identified that harmonious relationships are based on multiple levels of similarity:

  1. Genetic and physical similarity – People with similar DNA and physical traits are often instinctively drawn to each other.
  2. Social similarity – Factors such as age, education, income, and religion play a significant role in partner selection.
  3. Psychological and emotional similarity – Partners often share similar ways of thinking, values, and emotional responses.
  4. Energetic similarity – Every person has a unique matrix of informational energy that can synchronize with another’s.
  5. Intuitive similarity – Our perception and unconscious experiences determine whether we feel a connection with someone.

The YourLoveCode algorithms analyze these five dimensions of similarity to calculate how well two people energetically match. By comparing each individual’s energetic matrix, the system determines whether their vibrations resonate harmoniously.

Thus, partner selection is not random but based on deep-rooted principles of similarity and energetic synchronization.

1 Psychologie Heute, January 1997

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