Articles >> Love and Similarity: A New Perspective on Partner Selection

February 06, 2025

This article does not aim to demystify love but rather to shed new light on certain aspects of partner formation in connection with the 5xSimilarity Rule.

Through our clear mathematical-statistical concept, which calculates an energy balance between two people—based, among other factors, on facial features—we have discovered the following:

  1. There is no universal facial beauty and, therefore, no universal energy that suits everyone.
  2. Facial symmetry is important, but not in the way the media portrays it. Our studies show that potential couples always have symmetrical, meaning similar, faces. The higher the similarity, the better they match. However, this has nothing to do with the so-called “classical beauty ideals” or the golden ratio propagated by the media.
  3. Relationships develop largely according to archaic mechanisms. Unconscious sensations play a central role in this process. YourLoveCode has deciphered these unconscious factors.
  4. You are beautiful—and you seek the beauty that matches you.
  5. You are capable of finding a partner with whom you can enter a state of perfect energetic resonance. The more synchronized your energies flow and the more similar your faces are, the more harmonious your connection will be.

Beauty, Partner Selection, and Societal Perception

95% of people must—consciously or unconsciously—deal with the beauty ideals represented by only about 5% of the population and defined and propagated by the media. If someone does not perceive themselves as “beautiful” and is in a relationship with a partner who is also considered “not beautiful,” an inner justification often arises.

The media frequently pose the question: “How would you rate your attractiveness on a scale from 1 to 10?”

A large portion of the Western population would struggle to answer this question objectively because, in many people’s consciousness, automatic comparisons arise with those at the top of the so-called beauty scale—models, actors, influencers, or politicians whose images do not match their own appearance and are often assigned the number 10 by the media.

However, our research provides a clear answer: Mathematically speaking, in the context of real partner formation, people within “similar attractiveness levels” match best—without assigning a rating in the classical sense. This means:

  • A 1 matches a 1, a 2 matches a 2, a 5 matches a 5, a 10 matches a 10—provided that facial similarity is sufficiently high.
  • A 10 does not match a 1—not because a 1 is considered “less beautiful,” but because the energetic resonance does not occur due to a lack of similarity.

Thus, it is not about the “classical beauty ideal” launched by the media but rather about a deeper, DNA-anchored adaptation that enables an energetic resonance within a couple. This resonance manifests in many aspects—not just in the face, but also in biological, emotional, and spiritual characteristics.

The Role of Social Media and Public Perception

The following questions illustrate why attractiveness is often perceived differently on social media platforms:

  1. Why do influencers with vastly different appearances—regardless of their placement on a 1-10 scale—have such great success and many followers?
  2. Why is the platform “OnlyFans” so successful, even though people with various “attractiveness” levels appear there?
  3. Why does this principle work the same way on all social media platforms?
  4. Why does the same principle apply in the adult film industry?

The simple answer: Energy seeks energy—and the attractiveness scale defined by the media operates on different principles in real life, especially regarding the energy flow between people.

People—consciously or unconsciously—seek a connection with energies that match theirs. Various types of energy play a role, including:

  • Spiritual energy
  • Emotional energy
  • Physical energy
  • Awareness energy
  • Aesthetic energy
  • Sexual energy

These forms of energy are extremely diverse and cannot be reduced to a simple scale from 1 to 10. The division into such a scale serves only as a simplified representation of a highly complex energetic resonance principle.

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